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Tony Robbins finds himself accused of vague sexual misconduct allegations, and it’s helpful to sort through the three main categories of alleged misbehavior.

Before we do, what is truly bad behavior is the aggressive litigation posturing Robbins’ used. He used bottom-feeding lawyers to silence his critics. Based on what I’ve seen in the article, Robbins was being too sensitive. The allegations against him aren’t approaching the worst or “#MeToo.”

Category 1. Tony Robbins would have his security find him female fans and he would use his status to meet women. 

This is well-known, and was discussed in the Tony Robbins Playboy interview.

PLAYBOY: Why didn’t you think one woman could?

ROBBINS: After my divorce, before dating Sage, I was at a stage where I thought that would be totally impossible. I was a single, successful man. I’d taken my company public, and I was pretty intelligent—and humble, as you can clearly tell. [laughs] When I started dating again, I’d tell women, “I don’t want to be married. I’ve been there.” But I was crazy enough to bring women to my resort in Fiji for five straight days instead of going out and having lunch. I was so stupid. What most guys think would be their ultimate fantasy was the worst experience of my life. I was miserable because these women wanted to marry me after a week—my idea of hell on earth.

PLAYBOY: And did your women fans express interest in you?

ROBBINS: [Laughs] More than that. They’d send me their panties and show up at events in limousines to get through security, or turn up at my house to convince me they had an offer I couldn’t refuse.

Of course Robbins was having orgies and hooking up with women regularly. As long as these activities were consensual (and even the Buzzfeed article doesn’t suggest they weren’t), who cares?

Category 2. Tony Robbins would sexually harass his employees.

The workplace sexual harassment allegations seem vague.

Two former followers who went on to work for Robbins provided BuzzFeed News with signed statements swearing under oath that they felt he had sexually harassed them by repeatedly pursuing them after they made clear they weren’t interested. Two more women who worked as his assistants said Robbins expected them to work alone with him when he was naked in his hotel room or in the shower. And another former employee said she was fired after having a consensual sexual relationship with Robbins. The events described by all five women took place in the 1990s and early 2000s, when Robbins’ fame was skyrocketing and before he married his second wife.

If you work closely with people, there will be various times when someone is taking a shower. There’s nothing to indicate Robbins flashed his employees or sexualized the experience.

Was he weird? Probably. Most people in the self-help world have their eccentricities and non-conformist lifestyles.

Outside of the prudish United States, men and women are often naked together in non-sexual situations.

Category 3. Tony Robbins would bully abuse victims.

Buzzfeed’s article shows a misunderstanding of mindset work and Robbins’ work, citing this as an example of emotional abuse:

One woman had told him through tears that she had been raped. Robbins recounted how he had “cut her off” in a “warm” and “elegant” way and informed her that she was “fucking using all this stuff to try and control men.” “I don’t support anybody fucking raping her or taking advantage of her,” he said, according to the transcript, “but I don’t support her fucking manipulating herself, men, and other people by trying to use that tool when it’s really not the primary experience of her life now.”

The following truths can exist simultaneously:

You were victimized.

You are not a victim.

A person who is victimized can let this low point in life define himself or herself.

We see this every day. Something bad happens to a person, and their life freezes.

Robbins’ work is focused on helping people overcome what has happened to them by refusing to define themselves as victims.

Ironically, one person who Buzzfeed calls a victim has posted a response video to tell them to stop using her in the story about Robbins.

 

Realizing the Buzzfeed article (which wasn’t even that bad) was going to hit, Robbins’ team uploaded a video to YouTube.

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Robbins’ showed that “the fear of the thing is greater than the thing.”

The Buzzfeed article wasn’t even that bad.

No one who likes Robbins will read the article and think, “That’s it. He’s cancelled.”

And the people who read the article and hate Robbins are not mindset material, anyway.

Robbins like most celebrities has been coddled by the media for decades, and any criticism leads to an overreaction.

Take a deep breath, Tony, and unleash the power within.

Cernovich returned to the Rubin Report to brief the world on what’s going to happen in 2020 and beyond.

Watch the full interview here:

Let’s talk about offensive tweets, and there is a lot of them out there.

Everyone from Joy Reid (MSNBC) to Kaitlan Collins (CNN) has said some stuff. Should all of these people be de-platformed as hate speech criminals?

Joy Reid

Joy Reid lied about going to the FBI

• Joy Reid’s attorney says FBI has opened investigation into hacking claim

Joy Reid hates gay people

• MSNBC’s Joy Reid addresses homophobic blog post controversy

Any update to this?

I notice that Joy Reid remains an anchor on MSNBC.

There's no way she lied about this.

Right?https://t.co/KPLQwSXJRM

— Mike Cernovich (@Cernovich) May 14, 2019

The Young Turks

The Young Turks and women:

• At one point, “Dave” described chatting up some underage teenage girls he called “whores in training.”
• Progressive Group Ousts Cenk Uygur Over Past Sexist Writing

Mehdi Hasan

Mehdi Hasan’s homophobia:

• Al Jazeera Host Mehdi Hasan Apologizes for Past Criticisms of Non-Believers

Hi ⁦@brianstelter⁩, is this CNN expert Mehdi Hasan the same guy in this video? ⁦@briansflood⁩

Mehdi Hasan says Non-Muslims and Atheists live like Cattle, and Homosexuals are like paedophiles https://t.co/qFUYvsR9b3

— Mike Cernovich (@Cernovich) March 24, 2019

Kaitlan Collins / CNN

Kaitlan Collins called gays f-gs and said she would never have a gay roommate

• CNN reporter Kaitlan Collins apologises for gay slurs on Twitter

BuzzFeed is racist

Buzzfeed is Racist

James Gunn / pedophile Tweets

Read all about James Gunn here.

This list will be updated in real-time.

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P.S. You can watch Hoaxed Movie here.

A young man earns his blue infantry cord and falls in love.

It’s all downhill from there.

Listen to my full review of Breakfast with the Dirt Cult here.

I kept saying Breakfast with the Dirt Club rather than Cult.

• https://rokfin.com/post/615

A gritty, rage-filled, and learned protagonist takes us through the male experience of love and war. Breakfast with the Dirt Club is an uncensored and emotional journey of masculinity, toxic or otherwise.

You can read Breakfast with the Dirt Cult here.

Bitcoin’s price is up (or down, depending on when people bought in) and this leads us to ask some fundamental questions about Bitcoin.

• What is Bitcoin?
• How could Bitcoin allow for a mass exodus from broken nation states?
• Where would the productive members of society go to?

Listen on iTunes or Rokfin.

 

 

Today I appeared on BNN to discuss my latest film about foreign influence, Blood Money, as well as far left wing trolls who stalk children with the full blessing of Facebook.

Listen here to the radio spot today:

Watch Blood Money here:

“I was walking down the street and I said said to my then wife Marla, ‘That beggar over there is worth $900 million more than I am…. Because I’m $900 million in debt.” Think Big and Kick Ass, by Donald Trump, 2007.

“I was walking down the street and I said said to my then wife Marla, ‘That beggar over there is worth $900 million more than I am…. Because I’m $900 million in debt.”

Think Big and Kick Ass, by Donald Trump, 2007. pic.twitter.com/dcQsVMNy7a

— Mike Cernovich (@Cernovich) May 8, 2019

Journalists should read Trump’s books, they are excellent.

The Art of the Deal inspired me to 10X my life.

How The Art of the Deal Changed My Life (Not Political)

Trump, who as a speaker for the learning Annex saw Tony Robbins in action many times, understands the power of focus and framing.

“The more focused I am on doing things I love, the less stress I experience.” – Donald J. Trump

Focus in mentioned 26 times in Think Big and Kick Ass:

• “When I started my career in real estate, I had a problem. I had no money to invest in the properties I wanted. But I didn’t focus on it and let it stop me. I focused all my attention on buying properties without money!”
• “I used the focus on my will and the power of my enthusiasm to build even more momentum.”
• “I focused on my passion, and a lot of money has come to me.”
• “If you want to become successful and stay successful, you must learn how to focus.”

Trump also understands the role of self-talk and focus, writing, “If we were to say to ourselves, ‘I’m so unfocused’ instead of “I’m so stressed out,” I think we could clear things up more quickly.”

I wish I had read Think Big and Kick Ass before writing Gorilla Mindset, as there are many overlaps between the books.

Energy.

To maintain momentum, you require a lot of energy. To maintain your focus, you must have energy. Each pillar is important.

I am obsessed with ways to increase my energy, as I believe in myself. If I keep moving forward, everything will work out.

Trump talks about energy in Think Big and Kick Ass. “Your belief generates the power, the skill, and the energy to succeed at achieving your goals.”

Trump cites chess player Bobby Fischer as an example of a person with high energy and focus. “He boasted that he gave 98 percent of his mental energy to chess, while others gave only 2 percent. That explains his success. He enjoyed the challenge of focusing his mental energy.

Trump’s Mindset = Push, not permission.

In the Art of the Deal, Trump describes his deal making style. Making deals isn’t only about real estate sales. All of life is deal making.

Trump, a momentum player with intense focus and high energy, pushes: “I aim very high, and then I just keep pushing and pushing and pushing to get what I’m after.”

When one of Trump’s employer came to him with a problem, Trump’s solution was simple, “‘Keep pushing,’ I tell him.”

Later in the book Trump tells someone else, “‘Well, push, John,’ I say, ‘Push hard.'”

Trump doesn’t ask the media for permission.

He pushes his message.

Once the world became obsessed with Donald Trump, I did what it seems like few others who write about Trump have – I read his books, and this included The Art of the Deal. Although Art of the Deal was entertaining, like most books in the genre, it’s too vague to be applied to real life.

One section that stuck with me was “A Week in the Life.”

Trump kept a diary of his daily and weekly activities, and it blew me away how busy he stayed. It also shamed me. Why wasn’t I working harder?

I had good reasons for my time-management plan. Too many people have spazzy energy and lack focus. The problem most people have is doing too much, and not staying on task.

Most people are busy for the sake of being busy, and aren’t focused on 80/20 (Pareto moves).

I stayed on task, perhaps to a fault, and this slowed my growth. I needed to take a more Trump-like approach, and increase deal flow.

I focused on building up several properties at all once:

• Team took Facebook page to 400,000 likes,
• Produced feature-length film on free speech,
• Funded and produced second film,
• Held Gorilla Mindset seminars,
• Launched an events business,
• Supplement and Lifestyle company,
• Built a media presence,
• Etc.

My productivity increased, and that’s without a doubt because of Trump’s book.

The downside to A Week in the Life is chaos. 

A lot of people freak out by what’s happening in Trumpland, and I’m not here to change your mind on that. (Cernovich.com is apolitical and is about mindset, lifestyle, and winning at life.)

Chaos is part of a high deal flow lifestyle. For example, the first manufacturer for Gorilla Mind had to be fired. This set production back by 7 months.

When you have a lot of projects ongoing, you don’t always know every detail about what’s happening, and that can lead to some confusion, and is stressful for most people.

Most people in life want certainty. The irony is that certainty is another word for undiversified. Your one job or business is certain? It seems that way until you lose it. Life isn’t certain, and the way to mitigate uncertainty is to diversify your assets, income flows, and mindset.

Those who demand certainty find it frustrating to work with me. “I don’t know right now,” and “We will figure it out” are mantras I live by.

Where some see chaos, I see an OODA loop:

The OODA loop is the decision cycle of observe, orient, decide, and act, developed by military strategist and United States Air Force Colonel John Boyd. Boyd applied the concept to the combat operations process, often at the operational level during military campaigns. It is now also often applied to understand commercial operations and learning processes. The approach favors agility over raw power in dealing with human opponents in any endeavor.

Cernovich does not have any large billionaire backers, yet look at what we have accomplished. This is because we are agile, we move fast, we don’t have fixed plans, we respond to changing battlefield conditions.

To apply the OODA-loop in your own life you need to have the right mindset.

1. Observation. Sharpen your senses. Practice your skills of observation. Go for walks where you simply listen and watch. You will be amazed at what you see. Birds chirping. Couples feuding. Strange chalk marks in alleyways. Listen to your mind when you see something. Pay attention to the world around you.

2. Orientation. This is the big one. It means always striving to improve yourself be it through reading new books, listening to podcasts, or learning new skills. To orient effectively you must train your mind to recognize patterns, understand history and psychology, and even know your enemy.

3. Decision making: this one just comes with time, and with mentorship. This is why training schools exist in the military, or practice for sports teams.

4. Action. You need to strengthen your body. Lift weights. Get in shape. Eat right. Practice breathing. Everything described in Gorilla Mindset. This way your body and your mind will be prepared once you decide to take action.

Be ready to take your lumps and losses.

Trump’s companies plead bankruptcy a few times, although how many times is subject to debate. While some see these bankruptcies as evidence poor business acumen, others seek the bankruptcies as what you’d expect to find on a successful businessperson’s balance sheet.

Here is a basic math problem:

You do three deals of equal value, that is, you invest $100,000 in three businesses.

Deal 1. You lose all of your money and the business files for bankruptcy.

Deal 2. You lose all of your money and the business files for bankruptcy.

Deal 3. You make a 10X return.

“This loser pled bankruptcy twice,” is one way to characterize what happened. Another interpretation is that you have a net profit of $800,000. Both interpretations are true, which is yet another reason that much of what you read is simultaneously true and false.

Human nature loathes a loss, and most can’t take the L and charge it to the game.

The Sunk Cost Fallacy. The Misconception: You make rational decisions based on the future value of objects, investments and experiences. The Truth: Your decisions are tainted by the emotional investments you accumulate, and the more you invest in something the harder it becomes to abandon it.

You have to know when to get out. When? (See the OODA loop, above.)

You’re also going to get a lot of hate from critics and losers when you take a loss.

Your mindset must be to take the long view, and realize your life isn’t fixed at any given point. Don’t let the haters and losers get to you, and don’t be seduced by the fans. Keep moving forward!

My favorite quotes from The Art of the Deal.

On responding to haters. “My people keep telling me I shouldn’t write letters like this to critics. The way I see it, critics get to say what they want to about my work, so why shouldn’t I be able to say what I want about theirs.”

On instincts. “One is to listen to your gut, no matter how good something sounds on paper. The second is that you’re generally better off sticking with what you know. And is the third is sometimes your best investments are the ones you didn’t make.”

On media. “Contrary to what a lot of people think, I don’t enjoy doing press. I’ve been asked the same questions a million times now, and I don’t particularly like talking about my personal life. Nonetheless, I understand that getting press can be very helpful in making deals, and I don’t mind talking about them.”

On self-promotion. “The most successful painters are often better salesman and promoters than they are artists.”

On negotiate. “My style of deal-making is quite simple and straightforward. I aim very high, and then I just keep pushing and pushing and pushing to get what I’m after. Sometimes I settle for less than I sought, but in most cases I still end up with what I want.”

 

“The world took a negative turn in 2017, with global levels of stress, worry, sadness and pain hitting new highs. During a solid year of economic growth, the U.S. kept this negative trend going into 2018. Higher levels of stress, anger and worry nudged Americans’ overall Negative Experience Index to 35 — three points higher than any previous score to date.” – Read, Americans’ Stress, Worry and Anger Intensified in 2018.

Americans are in mental prisons of their own creation, as Scott Adams observed back when the media attacked him and Kanye West and Candace Owens for spreading love and positivity:

You have a country that is off-balance because we moved from a place where facts rule the world to where facts do not rule our world.

We live in a non-factual, mostly-subjective world… Once you start realizing how much of an illusion we are all living in, you can start to deal with your reality with a better understanding of it.

We’re entering a period where our biggest problems are simply psychology, simply the way we recognize our reality and the way we deal with it.

If we can just figure out how to be friends and how to work together in a positive way, we have an opportunity within the next 100 years to be something so special that it’s almost indescribable….We’re on the cusp of this, but we’re not there.

Physical facts make-up objective reality. This phone you’re holding or computer you’re reading from physically exists. Physical facts include the need for modern sanitation, proper hand-washing, and internal combustion engines.

Mental facts are what you use to construct a subjective reality. Your self contains physical facts such as DNA, hair, skin, and teeth. Most of your life is internal, and is made up of mental beliefs you hold about the world and yourself.

Mental facts are in control of our economy. Have you ever heard of a “run on the banks”? Then watch It’s a Wonderful Life.

If everyone collectively believes in a stronger future, we summon that stronger future.

The Gallup Polling data shows that much of the country is constructing a reality using negative mental facts.

And, although Gallup does not ask about political affiliation in its World Poll, there was also a strong relationship between stress, worry and disapproval of the job that President Donald Trump is doing. Those who disapprove of Trump’s job performance are significantly more likely to experience each of these negative emotions than those who do.

This data shows that watching the news is literally killing people. Anger can promote sudden death, and stress’ impact on the body has long been established as a negative:

Robert Sapolsky discusses physiological effects of stress

He also cited new studies suggesting that chronic stress causes DNA to age faster. “Over time, the ends of your chromosomes fray, and as they fray your DNA stops working as well, and eventually that could wind up doing in the cell,” he said. “There are now studies showing that chromosomal DNA aging accelerates in young, healthy humans who experience something incredibly psychologically stressful. That’s a huge finding.”

There has never been a better time in the history of the world, but if you’re watching the news and being hoaxed, you’re going to suffer early heart attacks and other stress-related conditions.

Turn off the television, click away from the fake news, and break free from your mental prisons.

What happens when a conspiracy theory is real? Mike Cernovich reviews Ryan Holiday’s book about the Gawker lawsuit, while also examining Peter Thiel’s thinking in Zero to One.

Listen to this episode at Rokfin.

 

Come work for me for three years, 40-60 hour weeks, and pay me $50,000 to $75,000. At the end of the three year period, maybe I’ll give you a six-figure job, although it’s far more likely you’ll earn much less.

Would that be an investment you’d make, or would you wonder if I was an insane person?

You’d think the later, even though that offer is what going to law school is.

Do not go to law school.

Listen to this podcast to understand why.

Listen to the Podcast on SoundCloud here or iTunes here.

 

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Originally developed as a nootropic to combat narcolepsy, fighter pilots who often flew 24-hour-plus missions began using Provigil / Modafinil to combat the physical fatigue and mental dullness that sets in after sleep deprivation. With the advent of the Internet and Indian pharmacies, Provigil / Modafinil began filtering down to high powered executives and then to anyone with an Internet connection.

For people who respond to Modafinil, it’s simply a wonder drug. “Magic pill” and “silver bullet” come to my mind when discussing Modafinil. (Disclaimer: This post is not medical advice. Always consult with a physician before using this or any other medication.)

What does Provigil / Modafinil feel like?

Do you ever feel like you need to make an effort to access part of your brain when retrieving information? When writing or performing other cognitive tasks, it feels like I retrieve information stored in various filing cabinets. My conscious mind seeks out one filing cabinet for a piece of information, grabs and holds that information, and then goes into another filing cabinet for an addition piece of information. Then my brain begins integrating all of the various “files.” It’s a cumbersome process.

On Modafinil, there’s no delay in retrieving information. Everything is just there – all at once. My brain feels like its a spider web where all of the neurons are talking to each other simultaneously. It’s an amazing feeling and if you’re running Modafinil with test, you will feel like a super hero or demigod.

Provigil / Modafinil for Intermittent Fasting.

Many people report getting headaches while using Modafinil. My question is always the same, “Did you drink water?”

When on Modafinil, your desire to eat or drink anything will go to zero. You will essentially “forget” to eat and drink water. The head aches that people report from Modafinil are almost caused by dehydration.

If you want to fast for 16-18 hours, then Modafinil is perfect. Don’t eat anything for 16 hours. Train on am empty stomach. Then eat for the next 6-8 hours.

Be sure to drink a lot of water. I recommend a half gallon or more per 8 hours.

Provigil / Modafinil for Better Workouts.

Strength is ultimately a product of neurological functions. Modafinil improves neuromuscular function. I have the best training sessions of my life on Modafinil.

100 mg of Modafinil taken one to two hours before a training session will lead to awesome workouts. I don’t use any other stimulants (no pre-workout aids like Jack3d) other than maybe a half-caff cups of coffee.

How much Provigil / Modafinil did I take?

I’ve never taken more than 100 mgs – one-half of a tablet. Many guys take 200 mgs.

Some split their 200 mg cap in half and take 100 mg in the morning and 100 mg in the evening.

I have never seen the need to take a full tablet. A single 100 mg dose in the morning keeps me humming along quite nicely. At the end of the productive day, my brain feels tired and ready for rest.

Did I “cycle” Provigil / Modafinil?

Yes, Modafinil become less potent the more frequently it’s used. I only use Modafinil a few times per month. Heavy users of Modafinil report using a cycle of 2 weeks on/2 weeks off.

As with any other drug, Modafinil’s effects will vary based on an individual’s physiology. The “right” way or “wrong” way depends entirely on the person.

Where can I purchase Provigil / Modafinil?

Modafinil is available with a doctor’s prescription. It’s often prescribed to people who work swing shifts at work and thus develop erratic sleeping patterns.

What are Provigil’s / Modafinil’s side effects?

The side effects are typical and generally mild and vary by person. Modafinil’s side effects include nervousness, nausea, and irritability. There is one serious side effect that is purportedly extremely rare – a gnarly full body rash. (In one study, 0 out of 4,264 patients got the rash, so the rash does not seem like a major or even minor concern.)

Although tens of thousands of people have used Modafinil and lived to tell about it and the Modafinil skin rash seems extremely rare and unlikely, you should do your oak homework and assess the risks.

Modafinil: What’s the bottom line?

Not everyone responds well to Modafinil. Some take it and feel amazing and others take it and feel nothing. (although some people who feel nothing may have purchased counterfeit product.) Modafinil boosts fat loss, improves workout, and even makes sex more pleasurable. Modafinil makes pretty much everything better. Do your homework, though, and research the side effects and always consult with a doctor.